Looking ahead

The last couple weeks have been really hard. I’m so sad to be leaving Minnesota and all my friends and family here—even just the place. I’ve lived here for 50 years. 

The amount of work involved in dismantling a house we’ve raised kids in and lived in for 16 of those years is staggering. I feel like I’m trying to move a mountain with a teaspoon. I told Gauss that my tank is empty, but I still have a thousand miles to drive.

Then a group of friends took me out for dinner at Little Sichuan: Nanc Macleslie, Bev Petrie, Deb Black, Jane Toeniskoetter, and Carolyn Roby. At the end of the meal, this is the fortune that was in my cookie:

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